Education

In South Africa, the school year begins in January, and goes through the year until the December holiday season.  The end of 2015 brings the end of the school year with it’s joys and challenges.

Lily of the Valley had nine students who were matrics this year (high school seniors). The academic year was a struggle for these learners in many ways, and the challenges they faced made the news of all nine passing matric exams that much sweeter of a celebration! We praise God for the accomplishment these young adults achieved. Of those taking the matric exams in our province of KwaZulu Natal, sixty percent passed. We ask you to pray with us for them as they begin the next steps in independence with jobs, and schooling.

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Uncle Mike speaking at the farewell for the matrics

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Some of our matric boys with their proud caregivers and guidance counselor

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One of our matrics saying his goodbyes as he leaves for opportunity for internship in New York City

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Two of the matric girls (green shirt and “#89”) getting settled in before starting college classes

Our learners advance into high school after finishing grade seven here, so here are some of our grade seven’s all dressed up for their grade seven party:

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Ready to party

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Moving up to grade 8 – proud to be wearing her new high school uniform

A new school year means changes for the youngest at Lily too:

All dressed up for grade R (knidergarten). We'll miss the preschoolers!

All dressed up for grade R (knidergarten). We’ll miss her in the  preschool!

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Coloring in the preschool

Coloring in the preschool

Some of Lily's littlest learners in the preschool

Some of Lily’s littlest learners in the preschool

This year, there are currently seven matrics – all girls.  For four of them, the  school year began with a rocky start, as they had to switch to a new school from the one they were registered with last year.  Please pray for them to be able to catch up in the work since they began the new school a couple weeks late.  Pray that they will have the help they need to succeed in their courses, and that they will all do well in their academics this year so that they too can join the list of students at Lily who have passed matric!

 

 

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Christmas and a New Year

2015 ended with a festive Christmas season here at Lily of the Valley. Although much effort and work went into the planning and carrying out of the Christmas activities, it was exciting to be part of the holiday season with the kids.
During the month of December, thanks to the efforts of our fellow staff members and generous financial gifts from many all around the globe, each of our 116 kids had an “advent stocking” to reach into each and every day of the 24 days before Christmas.  We used this as a time to express to the kids that advent means “waiting”, and that in anticipation of the celebration of Jesus on Christmas day, we would be sharing a small goody with them each day as they waited for the birthday party for Jesus that we were planning for Dec. 25.

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Lori explains Advent waiting

Our celebration of Jesus’ birth began on Christmas morning with a pancakes & pajamas breakfast, which the kids enjoyed while watching a movie.

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Walking to pancakes and movie

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Pancakes and movie

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PJ’s and Pancakes and Movie

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Mike and Lily nurse, Rachel enjoying the kids and the movie

While some of our hardworking staff were serving up pancakes, others of us were delivering the kids’  Christmas gifts to the children’s houses. These gifts  were made possible through generous contributions from all around the globe, and because of those efforts, our Lily kids were able to receive items from their “wish lists”.  When pancakes and movie were finished, the children raced back to their houses to open presents.  Many were truly touched and expressed their emotional thanks.

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Waiting gifts in each of the houses

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Helping the little ones to get to their houses for presents

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New watches

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New “tekkies” for the teens

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Showing off their Christmas clothes

With our morning events finished, we had a mid day break before the birthday party for Jesus began in the afternoon.
Although it was a rainy, gray day; our kids enjoyed the bounce castle and the mechanical bull that was on site. Then for our Christmas meal we had a “braii” (cook out) with “boorwors” (sausage), chicken, steak; deep fried “chips”(french fries), “chakalaka” (spicy bean salad), beet salad, “pap” (like corn grits), rolls, and of course birthday cupcakes and ice cream for dessert!

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Uncle Mike helping at the mechanical bull ride

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One of Lily’s house mom’s cooking the pap (like grits).

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Lori taking a try at stirring the pap

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Christmas cupcakes to celebrate Jesus’ birthday

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The braii (BBQ)

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Our New Year’s Eve celebration began with another day of inflatables:  a bounce castle for the little ones, and an obstacle course and gladiator ring for the older kids.

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Mike gets in on the gladiator fun

Then through a generous donation, the kids and staff were treated to a fried chicken meal, and there was a candy buffet for dessert.

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Serving up some fried chicken and “chips” (fries)

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Some of the littlest New Year’s Eve revelers

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Serving up the candy buffet

Candy buffet The evening continued with fireworks and sparklers for the younger children, and then the teens extended their fun into the evening with a dance party, bonfire, and midnight swim.

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Lily’s (First) Baptisms

Sunday, November 29, five young people at Lily of the Valley entered into the waters of baptism in obedience to the Lord, publicly acknowledging their love for Jesus.

Mike spoke about baptism in the worship service.

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Then it was time to move from the church building to the pool for the baptisms to take place.

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Our Pastor Nkululeko baptized the first four young people, and Mike baptized the fifth.

Scroll through the videos and photos below to celebrate with us:

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                            “Leti” enters

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            The Congregation

 

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                                       Group Hallelujah

 

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Winter 2015 Highlights


It may seem strange for those in the northern hemisphere to read that title, but the months of June, July and August are the winter months here in South Africa.  Below we are including a few highlights from the past few months here at Lily of the Valley Children’s Village.

In July, the schools had  winter break, with three weeks off.  Lily was busy with the activity of kids and volunteers.  We had four teams from two different churches in the U.S. here to help out for four weeks.  There were  construction projects, and outings and other activities planned for the children.

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Much needed renovations and updates done on one of the children’s houses by a church team from California. Photo Credit: Bridge Riddell

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Volunteers from a local private school came for the day to do a variety of activities     with our kids. Photo Credit: Bridge Riddell

 

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Fun games, dance, and face painting are some of the popular activities.

In July we attended our annual SIM South Africa Spiritual Life Conference (SLC).  This gives all the SIM workers in South Africa, who come from many places around the globe, to meet and fellowship, pray, and have a time in God’s word.  Worshiping with and getting to know others who are like minded in ministry, were some of our favorite parts of the conference.

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SIM South Africa Director Siegfried Ngubane

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Mike running projector for group & worship sessions. He also led a morning prayer session.

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Taiwanese gentleman with ministry to isiZulu speakers leading us in a Zulu hymn for worship. The body of Christ-


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Once school break was over, and we returned to our “normal” schedule, the day to day of our life here included things such as Lori continuing to help out in the preschool, helping with homework and other kids’ projects, fixing wheelchairs, and having a special overnight guest!

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                        Nap mats Lori made to update the preschool

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                               Uncle Mike helps with a project

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“Baby M” had a chance to return for a weekend when a regular caregiver was not available for her house.  They arranged for her other housemates to be with the other caregivers, but who wants a baby??? …. Of course we welcomed the chance for a weekend guest!

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LOOK WHO TURNED TWO!

LOOK WHO TURNED TWO!

So far this year, Lily has seen four children adopted into forever families, and two more children will join their adoptive families in the coming weeks.  Though  it is bittersweet to say farewell, we are grateful to see these kids blessed with the permanence of family. With the exception of the Gospel, it is what they need most.

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Leaving Lily with her new mommy

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Preschool Happenings

We realize it’s been some time since we’ve posted here on our blog. Keep checking back, as we hope to add more soon!
Here’s what we’ve been up to over the past five months at Lily-

First up, the preschool. Lori’s role of early childhood advocate here at Lily has begun the important task of upgrading the physical space that is used for the preschool, (as well as looking into a curriculum to use for a more structured and consistent preschool program).  Cleaning, sorting, eliminating, organizing, and inventory has been a large part of this first step.   These photos were taken of the side room off the nursery which was being used for a “storage/catch all”. The goal was to clean it out and make it available for use directly for the preschool only.  

Here are some photos of the work in progress:

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Sorting….

 

OK.  I admit, I had a little help with mopping one day from a young friend who needed some... shall we say... discipline.  But we found a way to keep our spirits up in the midst of the "muck".
OK. I admit, I had a little help with mopping one day from a young friend who needed some… shall we say… discipline. But we found a way to keep our spirits up in the midst of the “muck”.
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Cleaner and sorted. A diaper changing station in the works. But still room for improvement….
Next step: washing toys....
Next step: washing toys….
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…And sorting by type
Ma Pretty instructing the kids about the new toy organization and their part in helping to keep things tidy and in their proper bin.
Ma Pretty instructing the kids about the new toy organization and their part in helping to keep things tidy and in their proper bin.
A bit more sorted....
A bit more sorted….
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Making progress….

There are still goals to meet, such as a replacing the rug, and creating more storage “cubbies”.  We’re also considering ways to arrange the nap mats up off the floor. Moving the rack of dress up clothes in the photo above to the side room,  allows us to utilize the chalkboard that is behind the rack. Soon we will  give the chalkboard a fresh coat of chalkboard paint, it will be ready for little hands to create away and improve their fine motor and creative skills! Come back to this blog to check for further updates and photos as we continue to make improvements on the preschool.  Until then, be sure it’s not all work and no play.

Below are some photos and videos of all the preschool fun we’ve been having lately!

Sewing cards to work on those fine motor skills.
Sewing cards to work on those fine motor skills.
Scissor practice.  Such concentration!
Scissor practice. Such concentration!

 

Simple activities like this (pull the clothespin through the lid hole) are helping  to increase focus, and fine motor skills.
Simple activities like this (pull the clothespin through the lid hole) are helping to increase focus, and fine motor skills.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tummy time is important too!
Tummy time is important too!

Socializing gives opportunity for fun and building positive character traits……

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Birthday fun

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Learning to get along with each other

 

 

 

Outdoor exercise!

 

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Dress up fun

Photo Credit: Nikki Hamm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sandbox fun

Sandbox fun

 

 

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Sandbox drumming and dancing

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Outdoor large muscle play

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Snack time

And let’s not forget simple silliness:

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Silly hide-n-seek

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Resurrection 2015 Reflections

As we come into Resurrection Sunday, we stand in awe of the grace of our Lord.
There is no way to express the gratitude we feel in our hearts for all He has done.  We simply owe Him our lives.

“Oh Father, use my ransomed life
In any way You choose
And let my song forever be
My only boast is You”
 

We are grateful for all of you and your part along with us in the work here at Lily of the Valley in South Africa  As you listen to the song in the video link below, we pray God will bless you afresh with the abundant joy that is His grace and sacrifice.

” But far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.”
Galatians 6:14

“All I Have is Christ” – Sovereign Grace Praise – copyright 2008

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Back at Lily – March 2015

 January 25, we began our second term with SIM at Lily of the Valley.  Part of the process of arriving back in South Africa, was saying good – bye.  We are thankful for our time in the States, and the many ways we were supported and loved.  Counting our six months of stateside blessings includes:

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Use of home given graciously

Use of vehicles

Folks taking us out for a meal or having us over to their homes for dinner

Monetary gift for Lori from ladies group

Many people approaching us to begin monthly support

Two new churches on board with regular support

Time with family

People gave us money designated for personal needs

Travel safety

Meeting new friends serving all around the world

Keeping vigil for Fed Ex deliveries for us

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Two iPhones passed along to us

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Supportive family members for our daughters to live with

Enjoying the beauty of Colorado and Maine

We are grateful for each of you that ministered to us in these and countless other ways, as we were renewed and refreshed for the hard work of saying goodbye.

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Saying goodbye kids in Texas

 

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Saying goodbye to Lori’s parents in Maine

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Saying goodbye to kids in Maine

After our journey of over 24 hours, we arrived safe and sound to be met by Bridge and Hilary Riddell at the airport in Durban. Upon our arrival at the gate at Lily, we saw one little boy waiting to meet us. Soon, we were surrounded by a mob of kids as they noticed we were back!

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And of course, we made sure to see baby “M” right away!

Since arriving, we have merged into the schedule at Lily with our roles and responsibilities.  Mike has jumped right back in as village manager; overseeing the staff and kids at Lily, handing out the monthly pocket money, addressing discipline issues, and attending meetings with staff (and more meetings…).

Mike leading weekly assembly.

Mike leading weekly assembly.

Pocket money day.

Pocket money day.

Lori is beginning to observe the preschool kids’ individual developmental assessments, and organize systematic activities for them to help them acquire the skills they need. She is also beginning the process of sorting and cleaning the current preschool room to give it a much needed updating.

One night a week, we host a Bible study in our home for onsite staff and volunteers at Lily.  It is an encouraging time in the word together.

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Thank you for keeping us in your prayers.  We are blessed by your support in ministry.

 

 

 

 

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Going Back to Lily

Wow! We’ve been in the States away from Lily of the Valley in South Africa for five months already. As we celebrate Christmas and anticipate the beginning of 2015, we look forward to our return to Lily.
Below we are attempting to answer some of the more “frequently asked questions” (FAQ) that may be in your minds regarding our return to South Africa.

1) Where are Ellie and Eden?  How/what are they doing now?  Will they be going back with you?

They are doing well, settling into life in the States since their high school graduation, and will not be going back to SA with us.  (although we wouldn’t be surprised if they wanted to visit Lily again sometime). They each have jobs and are looking into what their education plans will be. Ellie is staying with an aunt, and Eden with our oldest daughter, Kaleena; so it’s good that they will be with family once Mike and Lori return to SA.

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 2) Will you do the same things at Lily as you did before? What will your roles/responsibilities be when you return?

Mike will be returning to the role of “Village Manager”.  (When we use the term “village” we are referring to the property at Lily that has the childrens’ homes).  He will be involved in direct oversight of the care of the children (think dad to 100+ kids), as well as leadership and development of staff and volunteers.

Lori plans to be involved with the preschool age children, helping to track and facilitate their early childhood development.

 

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3) When do you go back?

We have been given the “green light” from SIM to make our travel plans!
Although we would have liked to return before Christmas, we are now making plans to return in January.  We had some medical appointments to accomplish and follow up with.  We are currently in the process of applying for our travel visas and hope to hear that we have been approved. If there are no complications or delays in regards to these things, we will be leaving on flights scheduled for January 10th. We pray the holiday closures at government offices will not interfere with our timing, however we can change our tickets if we have to.

4) Do you still have financial support left to raise before you go back?

Praise God that we are currently 93% funded!  We appreciate each and every person who has been partnering with us in this Kingdom work. Already 66 families, and five churches, have stepped out in faith as senders. That’s a lot of people, and it’s beautiful to see that God has united so many around a work that is close to His heart; caring for the orphan. Each financial sender is giving as the Lord has led them to give; doing the part God has given them. Each is contributing to what God is doing at Lily of the Valley. We’re excited to be part of what God is doing; and to be doing it in partnership with God’s people. You can be part of it too. The outstanding portion of our needed monthly support is only $500!  Five more who are willing to make a faith promise of $100/month will meet that need.  No amount is too small.  Please pray about your part in ministry with us at Lily of the Valley Children’s Village. Perhaps God is leading you to partner with us in missions through a monthly gift. For online giving, use the giving button below. When you do, you will have the option to set up a recurring monthly gift. This is the easiest and most cost effective way to support an SIM missionary.

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THANK YOU!

We’re going back to Lily, want to come?

 

 

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When We’re Not at Lily – Part 3

MTI

Mission Training International

Our time at Mission Training International has come to a close.  We spent four weeks at their training campus in beautiful Palmer Lake, Colorado.  Being surrounded by mountains and the beauty of God’s creation was a perfect setting to be encouraged to “develop the practical skills and attitudes that will successfully take you through the challenging and rewarding process of being interwoven with another culture” through their COMPASS program. *

 

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Our first two weeks focused on “tools and techniques necessary to learn a new language more quickly”, and provided “… both a background understanding of how to best learn a new language- including 30 proven techniques – and a solid foundation in phonetics (hearing and producing different sounds)”*

* https://www.mti.org/programs/COMPASS

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Language Learning Session

Tok Pisin (pidgin English) session.

Tok Pisin (pidgin English) session.

Our class times were filled with group sessions of practicing “mimicking” a new language as we heard it, as well as participating in the actual projects and activities we can take with us to use in language learning through our everyday interactions once back in South Africa.  We got to literally stretch our mouths and tongues to learn how to make the phonetic sounds that English speakers may not be use to making, as well as to learn of the sounds we English speakers make but don’t even realize we do. Oh… and we did much of this practice with a hand held mirror before our faces to be sure we were getting tongue/mouth placement just right!

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We also split up into smaller language groups that met with language helpers to give us a variety of real time practice in the language learning tools that we were learning about.  Lori’s group was with a Russian speaker, and Mike was learning Hindi.  These small group times gave us practical experience with the games, activities, and projects that we can use when we return to South Africa to learn Zulu on our own initiative.  In fact, one of the most important encouragements we received through this language learning portion of our training was that we need to take ownership of our language learning.

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Russian Group

To read more about Lori’s take on the language learning premises, click here:

Pray for us, that we will be diligent in this and utilize the tools we’ve been given.

“Father, find me faithful to steward this new information well”.

  The second half of our time at MTI was spent on cross cultural training.  Some of the modules we experienced touched on the topics of managing stress, embracing rest and keeping the Sabbath, conflict resolution styles, the various stages of transition of exiting home culture and entering new culture, values awareness, hellos & goodbyes, and grief and loss.

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Transitioning through “chaos”

We learned much about ourselves, our classmates, and our spouses during these activities and interactions, but most importantly, we learned much about our Father God, and His heart of compassion for those He calls His own.  Jesus experienced all this and so much more as He left His home, His culture and family (the Father) to meet us where we are; and that represented huge costs and sacrifice for Him in terms of His comfort and His glory.  Therefore, the sacrifices we make to meet people in their cultures are relatively small – but also imitate Jesus’ sacrifice for all peoples.

We not only participated in “class time” but also small “growth groups” where we interacted on a more personal level with others in our community at MTI, as well as meeting weekly with a coach who counseled and listened to us a couple as we processed all we were learning.  And there was ample time in our schedules to meet informally during “down time” in the evenings and weekends to get to know each other better.  The beautiful outdoors beckoned us for times of rest, relaxation, personal reflection, and recreation.  And there were many little kids attending along with their families to give us smiles and laughter through the days.

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Garden of the Gods

 

Summit of Pikes Peak

Summit of Pikes Peak

It was an especially uplifting time to meet together each morning for praise and worship through song.  We will miss the 39 adults and 21 kids that we met and interacted with over those four weeks.  We trust God to protect and use them well in all they do as they step out in obedience to His call to show His grace to the 17 countries we will be going to.

COMPASS Crew

COMPASS Crew

Take away Quotes from our time at COMPASS:

“That you are talking is more important than what you are talking about” – David McClure (in context of language learning).

“Live the life of language before learning the law of language”.  – Dwight Gradin

“We need to stop and rest so our souls can catch up to our bodies” (Cherokees on Trail of Tears).

“Die to even the beauty of your own culture”

 

 

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When We’re Not at Lily – Part 2

Our time back to the U.S. this summer has brought us good times with friends and family, and times to reconnect with ministry partners.  Which means… lots of travel: We flew from Durban, South Africa – to connect to Johannesburg.  While there, we happen to meet up with a friend. Elizabeth was also flying out at the same time and we saw her across from our check in counter!, and had a few minutes to say a quick hello/good bye.  This dear woman was there to meet us when we arrived in South Africa back in Oct. 2013, so it was fitting to see her as we headed off the end of July.

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With Elizabeth and Ammi in Oct 2013

Then began the longest leg of our journey (or so we thought) – by air non stop from Johannesburg to New York City.  We arrived in NY on a Tuesday morning, and then we made our way to fly again to Charlotte, NC to SIM USA for our brief time of interviews and visits with the staff there. We are grateful for the way that SIM USA home staff connected with us upon our arrival back to the States, and also for the care we observed them display as they handled the situation that was unfolding at the time  for the missionary from Liberia who was needing treatment for ebola.  We praise God for a sending organization that offers so much support and care for it’s members, and that is so committed to the gospel even during difficult situations when the cost can be high.SIM   When we left Charlotte, we intended to fly but the “stand by ” flights had no space available, so… road trip!!!  We rented a car and drove to Maine: IMG_1511 IMG_1514 IMG_1516 IMG_1517 IMG_1518

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“Welcome to Maine”

Upon our arrival back to Hollis, Maine, we were welcomed by dear friends: arriving arriving 2 arriving 3     arriving 4

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Thank you to our dear friend Lisa, who took these photos and got her hug after they were taken.

The next day was also a party to welcome us back and celebrate Ellie’s and Eden’s high school graduation: IMG_1526   IMG_0151 IMG_0152   IMG_1525   IMG_1524     IMG_1530   IMG_1528   E nd E Grad Mom and Dad Grads kiss IMG_1529 party 3 party We are so grateful for the support and warm welcome we have received from our home church, Hollis Center Baptist Church.  Thank you for blessing us!   We’ve been enjoying being in Maine and all that it has to offer:

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Lori’s Birthday celebration

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A trip to Delorme and seeing “Eartha”

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Summer time in Maine

 

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“Sherpa 1” and “Sherpa 2” – Hiking again

We have enjoyed visits with family: Lori’s parents and sister’s family, and speaking at churches here in Maine.  And seeing our older kids, Kaleb and Kaleena.  Our next time of travel took us to Houston to help Eden get settled in with Kaleena: IMG_1642

 

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A girl has to have wheels.

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Lori’s birthday treat from Kaleena with her girls

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Saying goodbye to Eden and Kaleena –

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The new room mates

After returning to Maine from Houston, Ellie got herself settled in at her new home with Lori’s sister in Maine:

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Wheels for Ellie

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A cozy, welcoming room

 

 

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Fall fun with family

Our first trip as “empty nesters” took Mike and Lori off to visit family in New York, and visit a special place, Letchworth State Park:

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Visiting Mike’s family

 

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The bridge where Mike proposed to Lori in 1980

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With summer coming to an end, our next adventure is for Mike and Lori to begin four weeks of cross cultural training at MTI in Colorado….. find out more in “part three” in our next blog entry…..

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